犧牲

Despair has now gone........ Meanwhile I'm reading a book that I'd stopped reading in the middle before. Very meaningful and touching! 大家看看這： "Sacrifice," the Captain said. "You made one. I made one. We all make them. But you were angry over yours. You kept thinking about what you lost. "You didn't get it. Sacrifice is a part of life. It's supposed to be. It's not something to regret. It's something to aspire to. Little sacrifices. Big sacrifices. A mother works so her son can go to school. A daughter moves home to take care of her sick father....." 犧牲，做什麼都有犧牲。有得必有失．．所以不需要覺得後悔．．這好像現在我的心境，雖然現在什麼都沒有，同時沒有人愛上天真的我，這些都不緊要．．只是短暫的犧牲，一切都會向好的方面來臨。所以我沒有覺得懊惱，只是現在不是時候，現在是犧牲中．． 還有這段都很touching： Parents rarely let go of their children, so children let go of them. They move on. They move away. The moments that used to define them - a mother's approval, a father's nod - are covered by moments of their own accomplishments. It is not until much later, as the skin sags and the heart weakens, that children understand; their stories, and all their accomplishments, sit atop the stories of their mothers and fathers, stones upon stones, beneath the waters of their lives. 所以要多些關心父母，他們從不離棄子女，但很多時是子女離棄父母．．當發現時可能已經太遲．． 收到Angel的電話，關係她的朋友遇到一些麻煩．．問一問我的一些所謂「法律意見」。覺得很好滿足感同真的可以幫到人，當然最後我一定會說最好找一找律師問清楚．．如果真的十分必要。看來真的找到自己想做的事情。 本來想寫一些今晚Dispute resolution學到的野，但還未收到lecturer的power point。所以都是遲少少再話俾大家聽，真的很有用．． 在又一城的log-on看到一份小禮物．．特別想買俾某人．． Festival Walk的聖誕樹很靚！！！ 很大粒星星呀！ 沒有著燈只是普通的一棵樹～～但．．．．．． 但一開燈就．．嘩！！！！！！！！